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The Perfection Campaign (A Daughter's Search for Acceptance)

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  • Product Details

    Author:
    Jill Vanneman
    Format:
    Paperback
    Pages:
    296
    Publisher:
    She Writes Press (June 9, 2026)
    Imprint:
    She Writes Press
    Language:
    English
    Audience:
    General/trade
    ISBN-13:
    9798896363262
    Weight:
    14.4oz
    Dimensions:
    5.5" x 8.5" x 0.9"
    File:
    Eloquence-SimonSchuster_09032026_P10573212_onix30_Complete-20260903.xml
    Folder:
    Eloquence
    List Price:
    $17.99
    Pub Discount:
    65
    Case Pack:
    32
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    $13.85
    Publisher Identifier:
    P-SS
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    A
  • Overview

    For readers of Why Be Happy When You Could Be Normal?, a debut memoir about a woman born into a conservative family who spends decades grappling with self-acceptance and her parents’ conditional love—until she finally learns how to love herself.

    Born with a cleft lip into an upper-middle-class, conservative family obsessed with image and success, Jill Vanneman was subjected early to a “perfection campaign” aimed at erasing flaws. 

    Told with unflinching honesty, moments of wit, and emotional depth, this coming-of-age story unfolds against the backdrop of 1980s America—a time and place where being a lesbian could cost you your job, your family, and your sense of self. As she grows into adolescence, college, and early adulthood, Jill begins to question not only her place in her family but also her sexual identity. Her journey leads her through turbulent relationships, professional achievements shadowed by internalized shame, and a heartbreaking attempt to reconcile with disapproving parents. Gradually, through therapy, spiritual exploration, and painful introspection, Jill learns that healing doesn’t come from perfection but from embracing the flawed, fierce truth of who she is. 

    A raw, deeply personal memoir of family expectations, social shame, and a relentless drive for perfection, The Perfection Campaign is a compelling testament to resilience, identity, and the high cost—and ultimate liberation—of living authentically.