Am I the Problem? (A Simple, 5-Step Process to Identify, then Break Free of the Manipulation and Gaslighting Plaguing Your Relationship Challenges)
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Product Details
Author:
Melissa Dr. Kalt
Format:
Paperback
Pages:
257
Publisher:
Hay House (February 2, 2027)
Imprint:
Hay House LLC
Release Date:
February 2, 2027
Language:
English
Audience:
General/trade
ISBN-13:
9798318605413
Weight:
13oz
Dimensions:
6" x 9"
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RandomHouse
List Price:
$18.99
Country of Origin:
United States
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65
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24
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Overview
With a science meets magic approach, this book shows high achievers how to handle interpersonal dynamics, so they finally stop being “open for business” to toxic people.
For high achievers, the most exhausting question is the nagging, internal whisper: Am I the problem?
In Am I the Problem?, board-certified physician and strategic advisor Melissa Kalt, M.D., demonstrates that a history of failed relationships, workplace conflict, and family drama is not proof of personal defect. Instead, it is evidence of a rigged game—a toxic dynamic where a high achiever’s best traits, such as intelligence, hyper-responsibility, and high capacity, are weaponized against them.
Dr. Kalt provides a systematic breakdown of the biological and cognitive loops that keep high-capacity individuals trapped. Readers will learn to identify the enemy without—the mechanics of manipulation, projection, gaslighting, and blame-shifting—and the enemy within, where they inadvertently leak their authority by over-functioning and being the one who always gets blamed for the drama.
What makes this book unique is Dr. Kalt’s "science meets magic" integration of Western medical expertise with Eastern and energetic medicine. By decoding the biological override of the nervous system, she shows readers that they do not need to be fixed, because they are not broken. Because the reader plays a role in the dynamic, they have leverage. They don’t need to change the other person’s 99%; they simply need to handle the 1% of the dynamic they are responsible for. This process takes the target off the reader’s back, so they finally stop being "open for business" to toxic personalities.
Through a systematic five-step process, Am I the Problem? guides readers to end the agony of moral dilemmas and stop seeking external validation. High achievers will gain the clarity to stop internalizing the blame, exit the rigged game, and finally regain their authority.
For high achievers, the most exhausting question is the nagging, internal whisper: Am I the problem?
In Am I the Problem?, board-certified physician and strategic advisor Melissa Kalt, M.D., demonstrates that a history of failed relationships, workplace conflict, and family drama is not proof of personal defect. Instead, it is evidence of a rigged game—a toxic dynamic where a high achiever’s best traits, such as intelligence, hyper-responsibility, and high capacity, are weaponized against them.
Dr. Kalt provides a systematic breakdown of the biological and cognitive loops that keep high-capacity individuals trapped. Readers will learn to identify the enemy without—the mechanics of manipulation, projection, gaslighting, and blame-shifting—and the enemy within, where they inadvertently leak their authority by over-functioning and being the one who always gets blamed for the drama.
What makes this book unique is Dr. Kalt’s "science meets magic" integration of Western medical expertise with Eastern and energetic medicine. By decoding the biological override of the nervous system, she shows readers that they do not need to be fixed, because they are not broken. Because the reader plays a role in the dynamic, they have leverage. They don’t need to change the other person’s 99%; they simply need to handle the 1% of the dynamic they are responsible for. This process takes the target off the reader’s back, so they finally stop being "open for business" to toxic personalities.
Through a systematic five-step process, Am I the Problem? guides readers to end the agony of moral dilemmas and stop seeking external validation. High achievers will gain the clarity to stop internalizing the blame, exit the rigged game, and finally regain their authority.
